Keeping yourself and the person you care for safe
Keeping yourself safe
As a carer, you can sometimes be at risk of harm by the person you are caring for.
This can be intentional or unintentional, but can fall into the category of abuse.
The risk of abuse is more likely if you are isolated and not getting any practical and/or emotional support from your family, friends, professionals or paid care givers.
Abuse can happen when the person supported:
- has health and care needs that go beyond your ability to meet them
- does not think about your needs or the needs of other family members
- treats you with a lack of respect or courtesy
- does not accept help and support from outside, including breaks
- refuses to be left alone during the day or night
- has control over finances, property and living arrangements
- takes part in abusive, aggressive or frightening behaviours
- has a history of substance misuse, unusual or offensive behaviours
- does not understand their actions and their impact on you
- is angry about their situation and wants to punish others for it
- has asked for help or support, but did not meet the criteria
If you have worries about yourself or you need to talk to someone about more support, please contact the Let's Talk Team on 0191 424 6000.